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"I believe the greater the handicap,
the greater the triumph."
John H. Johnson
the greater the triumph."
John H. Johnson
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__1.__What is your idea of perfect happiness?
Perfect happiness is the joy, satisfaction and self fulfilment a person derived towards his or her desired goal and achievement as regards a particular thing or more. It could be a desire environment or people or a kind of job, business, relationship, and even a kind of lifestyle. __2.__What is your greatest fear? According to Merriam Webster dictionary, fear is an “unpleasant emotion caused by the belief that someone or something is dangerous, likely to cause pain, or a threat”. My greatest fear is the fear of failure, that is, the fear of not being able to achieve what I desire to achieve irrespective my effort to make it work. _3.__What is the trait you most deplore in yourself? The trait I most deplore in myself is lack of patience. I get discouraged about certain things easily especially when it comes to relationships, I get pissed off easily once I find out about a few discrepancies in my dealings with the other party. I move on immediately without looking back or for a second chance. __4.__What is the trait you most deplore in others? The traits I most deplore in others is their perception about life such as not putting other people’s situations in their shoes, such as their inhumane attitudes towards others or unwillingness to assist others in need even when they have the means to. __5.__Which living person do you most admire? The living person that I most admire is my father – Chief Obadiah Abayomi Jossy-Abisogun. My father was 90 years in November 1st, 2018. A very focused and hardworking man who valued his family and the people around him with so much passion. My father thought me to always render a helping hands when am in a position to do so because I could be the person assigned by God to carry out such assignment. As a matter of fact, my starting all over in the United States without any regret is because of my father’s advice. __6.__What is your greatest extravagance? According to Merriam Webster dictionary, extravagance is overspending on something even when one does not need it. Honestly, there is no greatest extravagance in my life because of how I was brought up. Even though I love perfumes, that does not mean I spend unnecessarily on them, rather I get the ones that could last me for a long time. __7.__What is your current state of mind? My current state of mind is the constant self-reminder of how costly it is to fail, this has now become my determined factor of focus as regards to my set goal or achievement. That is constantly on my mind. __8.__What do you consider the most overrated virtue? According to Merriam Webster dictionary, virtue simply means good. What I consider the most overrated virtue is being obedient in every way such as taking orders, doing things according to rules and regulations or policy depending on the environment. __9.__On what occasion do you lie? When I don't want to hurt someone, or tell my real feelings about a person that is when I lie. __10.__What do you most dislike about your appearance? My legs are what I most dislike about my appearance, I wish I have straight legs to compliment my shape because I know I have a lovely shape __11.__Which living person do you most despise? I most despise any person that is not real, who is full of living a life of deceit not only to people around him but to himself. __12.__What is the quality you most like in a man? The most quality I like in a man is the ability to be open and hardworking, I do not like lazy men around me because as a lady I am hardworking and open in dealing with others around me. __13.__What is the quality you most like in a woman? The most quality I like in a woman is independence, a woman who will look at herself and say “I can do it” irrespective of the challenge that comes her way. A woman who is respectful and focused. __14.__Which words or phrases do you most overuse? “Excuse me”, “Sir or Ma” phrases I use most often. I overuse them to the extent that I feel stupid within myself. It is not really my fault, it is because of my background and culture where respect is very important. __15.__What or who is the greatest love of your life? My late mother was and still the greatest love of my life. My registered company is named after her as a memory. __16.__When and where were you happiest? The day I got my ten years (10) green card was my happiest because of the humiliation and embarrassment I kept getting from my husband because he thought he has done me a great favor by filing for me as his wife in the U S, which breaks my heart often. When I got my permanent green card I was filled with so much joy and relieve. __17.__Which talent would you most like to have? The talent I would most like to have is to know how to play some African musical percussions as well as the keyboard and guitar. __18.__If you could change one thing about yourself, what would it be? If I could change one thing about myself, I would love to be less emotional because I easily get emotional and this has cause me high blood pressure and anxiety problems. __19.__What do you consider your greatest achievement? What I consider my greatest achievement is my compassionate gift from God towards others especially to the people in need both financially and morally. I try as much as possible to impact positive things into others as the case may be. __20.__If you were to die and come back as a person or a thing, what would it be? If I would die and come back, I would still love to be a compassionate person and ask for more ability and resources to contribute to the people in need. __21.__Where would you most like to live? I would love to live where security, unity, love and compassion reign irrespective of the country or state. __22.__What is your most treasured possession? My registered company is my most treasured possession right now because of the compassionate services the company is designed for. My passion is to help the people in need such as physically and mentally challenged. __23.__What do you regard as the lowest depth of misery? Lowest depth of misery happen in different forms, time and people. To me, loneliness and starting all over in a strange land have been the lowest depth of misery. It can be depressing but I had to learn to manage the situation. __24.__What is your favorite occupation? Broadcasting is my favorite occupation, and I have really enjoyed been one for the period of eleven years (11) before relocating to the United States where I am doing my compassionate job (Health Care) and building my career in. __25.__What is your most marked characteristic? My most marked characteristics is my will power and passionate relationship with people irrespective of their positions. __26.__What do you most value in your friends? What I most value in my friends is respect, focus and value. That is why I choose my friends based on these values. __27.__Who are your favorite writers? I love some African Authors such as the late Chinua Achebe, the author of Things Fall Apart; Nobel Laureate - Wole Soyinka as well as Ngũgĩ wa Thiong'o, the author of Weep Not Child. __28.__Who is your hero of fiction? Romeo and Juliet in the Novel “Romeo and Juliet” are my heroes of fiction and I do not get tired of reading the book. __29.__Which historical figure do you most identify with? The historical figure I identify with is Julius Caesar because of his wealth of writing skills coupled with the story line. __30.__Who are your heroes in real life? My father is my real life hero and I am proud to say it anytime and anywhere because of his unrelenting roles in my life. At 90 years of age, my father calls me every day from my country – Nigeria, just to know how I am doing and how things are moving with me. He gives me advice when I need one. __31.__What are your favorite names? My favorite names are Eby, FEJ, Flojo and I am grateful for that. __32.__What is it that you most dislike? I dislike lie and lack of being open as to who and what you really are. __33.__What is your greatest regret? I have no regret, rather, I am striving really hard not to have any form of regret. __34.__How would you like to die? I would love to die peacefully in my sleep, in good health in my old age surrounded by my children and grandchildren. __35.__What is your motto? My motto is to impact positive influence into others which is my most valued treasure in life.
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